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關於我自己

我的相片
这里是我成长的小天堂

2009年5月23日 星期六

乌龟和兔子的比赛还在进行中- 礼物







狮子大王是乌龟与兔子比赛的裁判员

狮子说道:
再次的参与比赛是你们的荣耀
在起点时我要赠送你们每人四个锦囊
带着它,这是你能收到的最珍贵的礼物
开始你们人生的旅程
祝福你们快乐与成功

和往常一样,兔子遥遥领先
乌龟慢慢的,一步一步的
爬到了河边,母老虎已经等了好久

母老虎说道:
把这可乐喝下吧,你将遗忘过去
带着这四个锦囊,带着你的祝福
开始人生的旅程吧!

放松放松放松,把你的眼睛闭上
跟着我从一数到三,一。。。。。
二。。。。。,三。。。。。。
向着光的地方前进
眼前的任何挫折困难挑战
都是你前进的踏脚石

当乌龟张开眼睛时
已经到了另一个新世界

当医生用力拍打他的臀部时
他开始第一声的哭泣,他知道这就是心锚
往后的日子,每当不舒服或遇到不如意的事
只要大声的哭泣 ,将会得到关注与安抚

成长日子并不好过,披荆斩棘的岁月里
尤其是遇到挫败的时候
在夜深人静的夜空中
内心是空虚与寂寞的
由内心深处不由自主的呐喊
天啊!人生为何这么多的考验
人生的意义是什么?人生的终点在哪?

孩子啊!
可记得我曾经送给你的礼物
那个礼物,即非过去,亦非未来
乌龟醒觉后
开始寻找人生的锦囊
在天台的花盆里,盛开的白合花之中
他发现了

打开一看,缎布上
井井有条的锈写着,铭记
把握此刻

乌龟开始,细细回味
把握此刻
学习,快乐的活在每一个当下

从这一天开始,乌龟让自己的每一天
都过的充实
珍惜与欣赏每天得到的事物
开始有更多的力量和自信
去解决难题

似乎生活有了更进一步的改善
但这快乐好像还是有所欠决

于是他开始寻找他的第二个锦囊
一日清晨 ,在湿润枕头边,他找到了
小小的纸条上写着:
向过去学习

检讨了过去,向过去学习
做了一些调整,快乐的活在每一个当下
过去的事,真正的过去

顾虑放下了,此刻得到了完善

乌龟开始有了些许成就
享受此刻,变得更快乐了

在书柜里在书中
在阅读学习之余
创造未来
金光闪闪的四字
乌龟知道这是第三个锦囊的启示

计划了的未来
有了明确的目标
检讨并从经验中学习
每一个当下确实的认真的工作
特别是重要的事,认真的完成
乌龟的事业突飞猛进

一个美满的家庭
八个事业有成的孩子
贤淑的妻子

把握此刻
向过去学习
创造未来
人生变得更美好
乌龟在众人眼中是成功的!

真正的幸福是什么呢?
在清晨的莲叶上露珠
在阳光照耀下闪现光芒
第四个锦囊展现在眼前
成为你自己,活出你自己

内心喜悦欣喜的活着
乌龟找到他的幸福与快乐
他告诉每一个人
你自己拥有成功快乐的一切资源
只要你找到上天给你的四个锦囊
如果你活得醒觉
你稍微的注意
这锦囊就在你的身边

某一天,乌龟累了
闭上了眼睛睡着了
他知道是放下这份属于他的
独一无二的礼物的时候了

当他再次的把眼睛张开的时候
他看见了狮子

欢迎你完成你的旅程
你再一次跑嬴兔子
这是你冠军的礼物
狮子把一本书交到乌龟手上
这本书就是:礼物。

蔡仑倧
讲师, 生命教练

The Bunny and Tortoise Race - The Present


The Bunny and Tortoise Race 2009-05-17 00:14:23
Tuesday, December 2, 2008

The Bunny and Tortoise Race

Lion witnesses the race between the Bunny and Tortoise. Lion says to both racers, “Now, both of you have prepared for the race for some time and hope both are ready. Before you start, I would like to give both of you four envelopes each. Carry these four envelopes with you and start finding them when you start your journey.” As usual, Bunny starts to run fast while the Tortoise struggles behind. Bunny reaches the river side and there is this female Tiger waiting for him. She gives Bunny a bowl of soup to drink. Tiger says to Bunny, “Take this drink and you will not remember anything, then you start your journey. Just remember, you have four envelopes with you.” Then after, Bunny is asked to look at her hand and closes his eyes and relaxes. “When count to 3, you will be back and open your eyes”, Tiger says to Bunny. Tiger says the same thing to Tortoise when he reaches the river side. When Tortoise opens his eyes, he is in another world. The doctor slaps his back-side and he cries out loud for the first time. Oh, he knows this is anchoring. By crying loud, people around him will know he needs attention. Tortoise's journey in life is really a challenging one. One day, he really feels he needs to be a useful person. He visits the temple and asks “Oh God, please give me the wisdom and tell me how to lead a useful life.” Suddenly, he hears a voice talking to him. “My dear son, remember I gave you four envelopes before your started your journey?” Tortoise wakes up suddenly and realizes he needs to find his envelopes. He spends years and finally finds his first envelope in the backyard of his house. Opens up, he sees a piece of paper written, “Treasure and enjoy your Present moments” He starts to make full use of his present days but that does not give him a better life. Then he starts to look for his 2nd envelope. One day, he finds it under his bed and the piece of paper in the envelope reads, “Learn from your Past.” He thinks about his past and makes some adjustment. Yet, he still cannot find his happiness. He begins to find his third envelope and surprisingly, he finds it between one of his books. The papers in it says, “Plan your future.” The Tortoise does everything and has some achievement. Yet he is not contented and remembers he has his last envelope. While he is in deep thought, his hand feels something in his pocket and he takes it out. Oh, it's an envelope. He opens up and there is a piece of paper that reads, “Be what you are supposed to be and do what you are supposed to do.” Thereafter, the Tortoise enjoys and finds successes in his life He has fathered 3 children by now and he knows he needs to be a good father; and be a good employee in the company he is working in. Eighty years has passed and one day, he tells his grand child, “Remember, everyone has all the ready recourses to success. I find all the envelopes inside the house I have been living since young. And the last envelope is found in my pocket.” Tortoise closes his eyes. When he wakes up, he finds himself reading a book, a book written about his life. He finds his happiness and success. He has no regrets. Lion is standing in front of him and the Lion says, “Welcome back, you have completed your journey and done a lot of contribution to mankind. You are happy and successful because you find the four envelopes earlier than Bunny; who has never found any of them. Tortoise, my son, you win the race.”

2009年5月21日 星期四

我的价值由我开始

我生存的价值因为而我开始
我意识醒觉故我存在
我在观自己的存在
故我
活在每一个当下

为什么不快乐?
存在本身就是一份礼物
意识到自己的思想
看着它
不断的学习
否则将付出时间的代价

知人者智,自知者明
大学之道,在明明德
在亲明,在至于至善

从六度分离理论中
我意识到
我的心中存放着一份
从小到大的
交往人际关系的地图 。
人脉网络随机变动连线,
以我为中心。
认识连接关系,
朋友会越来越多,
一切的因缘由此而生。

世界65亿人
开了7次方根,
结果是25.2257,
原来每个人
认识20几个人
就从此延伸了
产生了错从复杂的关系。

我们每一个人要充分相信
利用自己的人脉。
因为,只需要
小小的六步,
它可以让你认识
这个地球上的每一个人。
而我正在希望能通过此理论
我开展人脉的广度。

曾几何时
一粒石头的投入
掀起了涟漪
沙石变成了结晶的珍珠
我的家,是我人脉的深度,
因缘而生,
因此的开展开展开展!

即是认识就是有缘,
缘由我开展,
灿烂的明天的日出
昨日阴晴的日月
此刻次刻此刻
我学习关注我的臨在
没有意识的关注着关注着
观自在

活在在每一个当下
我快乐的舞动着
喜悦的跳动着
就此的延伸延深着深处的灵魂。

蔡仑倧
讲师, 生命教练

2009年5月20日 星期三

NLP PRESSUPPOSITIONS

NLP PRESSUPPOSITIONS
YOUR GUIDANCE IN LIFE



The ability to change the process by which we experience reality is more often valuable
than changing the content of our experience of reality.

The meaning of the communication is the response you get.

All distinctions human beings are able to make concerning our environment and our behavior
can be usefully represented through the visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory, and gustatory senses.

The resources an individual needs in order to effect a change are already within them.

The map is not the territory. What we see are all our perceptions.

The positive worth of the individual is held constant, while the value and appropriateness of internal
and/or external behavior is questioned.

There is a positive intention motivating every behavior, and a context in which every behavior has value.

There are no failures only feedback. All results and behaviors are achievements, whether they are
desired outcomes for a given task/context, or not.

2009年5月4日 星期一

爱喝可乐的乌龟





爱喝可乐的乌龟




你可听说过乌龟爱喝可乐?

就有两只爱喝可乐的乌龟,在阳光明媚的星期天黎明做晨运。
跑过山坡,游过了小河,他们决定坐下来休息。

乌龟大哥从背包里拿出了两瓶可乐,一瓶分给了乌龟小弟。

龟大哥一口气的把可乐给喝完,他还是觉得口渴,于是,
对乌龟小弟说:帮我到对面街的超市给我再买一瓶可乐。

龟小弟连忙的说:不,不,不,不,不,不!。。。
你会趁着我去买可乐的时候,把我剩下的可乐给喝光!

“你认为我会这么做吗?我们是兄弟啊!”乌龟大哥大声的呼唤道。

“好!你绝对不要动到我的可乐。”说着,小乌龟越过了街道。

过了十分鈡,不见乌龟小弟回来,
等了三十分鈡,还是看不到乌龟小弟的踪影。

过了一个小时,乌龟大哥想,小弟应该不会回来了,
于是,决定把剩下的另外半瓶可乐给喝完。

正当乌龟大哥拿起可乐时,乌龟小弟从后面墙上跳了出来,
大声的说道:

“我就知道你会喝掉我的可乐,我已经在后面等了很久了,
我要证明我是对的!经验告诉我,你一定会喝我的可乐。“

小乌龟是一个思考者,不是一个行动者,
他花了很长的时间,证明自己是对的?

过去的经验是否就对我们有所帮助?
只有通过重新的学习,才能开创新的格局!
蔡仑倧
讲师, 财务服务与生命教练

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蔡仑倧
讲师, 生命教练
CHUA JAN CHONG
MBA,CSP,NLPP
Director, Financial Services

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企业管理硕士,
销售服务与生命教练
总监,
财务服务拥有超过28年的行销与主管服务经验

我的简介

-Representing Great Eastern Life since 1981

has won:
-Million Dollar Producers’ Club 1991,1992
-General Manager’s Persistency Award 1990
-Great Eastern life Quality Award 1990
-Member of Diamond Star Award 1990
-International Quality Award (USA) 1991, 1992
-Life member of Top Organizer’s Club
-Top Divisional Sales Manager Award 1991
-Million Dollar Round Table (USA) 1992
-Charter Membership of SingaporeGama Members1994
-Great Eastern Life Long Service Award 1997
-Member of GE Life Honours Club 1998
-National Mandarin Congress 1998 (NAMLIA) -Honour Speakers
-GAMA International Career Development Award 2000
-GAMA International Singapore Management Award 2000
-DIP EC 2005
-MBA 2006
-NLPU Trainer 2007

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人际管理行销战略!

Approach to the Inmost Cave
终极的决战与屠龙:
英雄开始接近最最危险的地带了
——某个有龙深藏的地底洞穴,
当英雄进入最后的充满恐怖的地方的时候,
他需要穿越第二个极限
(Crossing the second threshold)。